"Evil people get rich for the moment, but the reward of the godly will last."
What is this human willingness to trade long term gain for short term pleasure? Why is that so easy for us?
2 things amaze me-

1. How short sighted Jack can be
2. How exactly like him I am- just biggie-sized to adult proportions
Like any 4 year old, he wants what he wants when he wants it. If I offer him a cookie now, or two cookies in 5 minutes, guess which one he'll take? Every time.
His inability to see past this very moment right here leads to so much stress and frustration in his life- I often shake my head and wonder why he can't see.
He rarely takes time to savor what he's given- he'll consume it, play with it, discard it and ask- What's next?
He'll make any deal to get something now- 1 episode of Curious George and then right down for your quiet time- and then immediately want to renegotiate when the time come to "pay the piper."
I laugh, I get angry, I try to keep my patience with him and even succeed sometimes. But what's helpful for me is to see how he's actually just a smaller version of me- I do the same things- I just hide it better or do it in more socially acceptable ways.
For the sake of short-term comfort, I'll absolutely trade away birthright for pottage. Knowing I want, really want, good, strong relationships and friendships, I still, time and again, chose introversion, silence... self.
I want a rich intellectual life, but I trade it for crap movies, crap tv shows and mindless internet activity.
I want a strong, healthy body... but, man- that popcorn looks pretty good. Butter? Mmmm. Sure.
Whether it's my relationship with my wife, with others, with the world around me... time and again I'll choose the cookie now rather than the two, or five, or even 10 later.
Just like Jack.
But I know I'm not alone in this.
John Edwards is with me.
If you have credit card debt, you're with me.
Whatever the addiction, whatever the habit- you are probably just trading away long term gain for short term pleasure.
Why?
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